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Mothers of three children are under the most stress

'With four children, there is no room for perfectionism anymore'

Mothers of three children are under the most stress

TL;DR

  • Having three children marks a peak in parental stress, with stress levels decreasing from the fourth child onwards.
  • With four children, parents abandon perfectionism, both their own and external expectations, leading to a more relaxed approach.
  • Older children can assist with household tasks, and attention/play is more naturally distributed among four siblings, unlike the potential for one child to feel left out in a family of three.
  • Parents of multiple children often develop more experience and calmness, reacting to daily challenges with greater ease.
  • Children from larger families may develop better social skills and fewer conflicts compared to only children or those from smaller families.