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Why the Godfather Was 'Like a Brother' and How Godparents Were Chosen for Life
In Serbian tradition, a godfather was not just a witness at a baptism or wedding. The godfather was part of the family. The bond between a godfather and godchild (or godchildren) was considered sacred and lifelong. 'A godfather is like a brother,' the elders used to say, and this sentence best described how seriously this role was taken.
TL;DR
- In Serbian tradition, godfathers were considered part of the family, with a sacred, lifelong bond.
- The role of a godfather was taken very seriously, often described as being 'like a brother'.
- Godfathers were carefully chosen, often from trusted, honest, and respected individuals.
- At weddings, godfathers had significant roles, including leading the wedding party and offering advice.
- After weddings, godparents and godchildren considered each other family, offering mutual support.
- Godparents held respected positions, received with special deference and children were taught to greet them formally.
- The bond was so strong that godchildren mourned a godfather's death as a close relative.
- While godparenthood is now often a formality, deep connections still exist in many families.
- The advice given is to choose a godfather based on genuine connection rather than status or wealth, emphasizing loyalty through good and bad times.