"Kad sam bila mala, odrasli su bili glavni. Sad kad sam odrasla, deca su glavna. Nešto ne valja"
Barbara Slade Jagodić u kolumni na portalu Zadovoljna.hr napravila je paralelu o deci nekad i sad. I kako to da kad je ona bila devojčica, odrasli su bili glavni, a sada su deca.
TL;DR
- Past parenting involved children adapting to adult routines and conversations.
- Modern parenting often sees adults constantly attending to children's immediate needs and interruptions.
- The absence of boundaries is identified as the core problem, not the children themselves.
- Children are becoming insecure, restless, and demanding due to excessive accommodation.
- Setting boundaries is essential for children's development, teaching patience, independence, and respect for others.
- Constant availability and catering to children's every want does not prepare them for the real world.
- Phones are seen as a detriment to children's self-calming abilities and independent entertainment.
- Boundaries are presented as a form of safety and necessary for navigating life, not as trauma or punishment.