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Ignorisanje deteta može se dogoditi na nekoliko načina, objašnjava dr Robert Kajler, klinički psiholog i glavni klinički službenik u kompaniji Freespira Inc.
TL;DR
- Childhood neglect can occur when a child feels unfavored, or when parents are too preoccupied to provide attention.
- Consequences include shaping one's sense of self, chronic stress, anxiety, autoimmune diseases, and heart problems.
- Common traits of those ignored as children include feeling invisible, low self-confidence, difficulty making decisions, people-pleasing, low self-esteem, a critical inner voice, expecting judgment, avoiding vulnerability, seeking external validation through success, heightened empathy, difficulty trusting, and struggling to accept love.
- Healing involves recognizing behavioral patterns, psychological counseling, and using methods like 'DROP' to manage low self-confidence.
- Therapy can focus on the inner child, attachment styles, and nervous system regulation.
- Building healthy relationships is crucial for feeling seen, valued, and secure.