tech
March 25, 2026
Love Stories
There is nothing worse than when you love me, and I don't love you.
TL;DR
- The relationship between Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big from 'Sex and the City' was inspired by author Candace Bushnell's real-life romance.
- The character of Mr. Big was based on New York media executive Ronald Galotti, whom Bushnell dated for about a year and a half.
- Bushnell was deeply in love, but Galotti did not share her feelings, famously stating, 'There is nothing worse than when you love me, and I don't love you.'
- Their turbulent relationship inspired Bushnell's columns, which were later adapted into the iconic TV series.
- Bushnell nicknamed Galotti 'Mr. Big' due to his charisma and influence.