Spavao sam sa BIVŠOM, poverovao da je sve super, a onda me je jednim potezom skroz SLOMILA

Da li biste ikada spavali sa bivšom devojkom? A šta ako je to bila žena za koju ste bili uvereni da ćete s njom ostariti? Jedan mladić mesecima pokušava da preboli raskid, iako mu je bivša devojka slomila srce kada ga je ostavila zbog drugog muškarca.

Spavao sam sa BIVŠOM, poverovao da je sve super, a onda me je jednim potezom skroz SLOMILA

TL;DR

  • A man is struggling to get over his ex-girlfriend of three years, who left him for another man in the summer of 2025.
  • They reconnected shortly after New Year's, leading to an intimate encounter where she expressed doubts about her new relationship.
  • The next morning, she became distant and later texted him to say she wanted to stay with her new partner.
  • The man felt heartbroken and angry at himself for allowing her to hurt him again, which prompted him to seek advice from a psychotherapist.
  • The psychotherapist, Laura Collins, advised him not to blame himself, suggesting his ex might have had genuine doubts or wanted to test her influence over him.
  • Collins stated that the ex-girlfriend's behavior was not right, as she cheated on her current partner and acted insincerely.
  • The therapist recommended blocking the ex on social media, using the experience to gain perspective on whether he truly wants a lifelong partner capable of such behavior, and focusing energy on finding a new partner.
  • Collins assured him that healing takes time and he will eventually be grateful for not staying with her.